What are we looking for?

I have sat, countless times, with my friends just chatting whilst keeping an eye out for fit guys. Maybe we’d be in Costa playing 100 or maybe we’d be sat in Post 16. One way or another, the outside of a guy is a lot easier to appreciate than what is inside. To figure out your perfect guy, you have to go through looks, then personality. The fact is that that person doesn’t even exist. We all have the perfect guy image; then the perfect personality combined with that image is so slight you’ll probably never meet him. If you do? It wasn’t as good as you imagined. Mysterious has never been a good thing on guys for me… just tell me what you’re thinking! But yet so many girls look for the mysterious guy, otherwise known as Mr. Tall Dark and Handsome. So do any of us know what we’re actually looking for? We have the perfect image and personality, but let’s be honest, even he has the worst downfalls you could imagine. Which poses the question: does love at first sight really exist? None of us know what we’re looking for until it hits us in the middle of the face, and we don’t realise that love until we get to know the person. So is the modern ‘love at first sight’, actually ‘love at first getting to know?’ Because in my eyes, that’s pretty much the same thing, just a lot easier to find. And hey, we all need a little sprinkle of optimism from time to time. Xoxo