We all have those friends, the really close circle, that you could literally tell your life story too and hope not to be judged. Either because you can't face it, or because you'd just hope that they'd have respect for you and your 'mistakes.' But, when we're adressed with the same silly issues or their 'mistakes' we instantly judge; hence the reason advice is given.
'I like this guy. But, he likes this girl. Is it sensible to still flirt?'
And at the top of my lungs I'm screaming God no! However, if this was the other way round, would we want to be judged? If this was me, I'd make the excuse that there's nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting...right? But, if this was any of my friends I'd be telling them that they deserved better! Which leaves me asking....is it better to be honest or to lie to the ones we love?
I've always been an honesty is the best policy gal myself, but I also follow the learn by your mistakes curve. Where does that leave me? Even more so, where does it leave my friends? If you get a close circle of friends that you can tell everything to, then keep them close: afterall, we all need to shout 'God no!' once in a while xoxo
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