Self Sabotage

In life there are those people that constantly complain. Or maybe we all do? We complain about the constant bad luck that karma throws our way and we complain about the rubbish choices we made. But, there's the thing. The choice we made. We made those choices, and we didn't necessarily have to! You chose to go out with that guy even though your friends told you ,'God no,' and you chose to get that tattoo that you're now regretting 3 months on. And, do you know what? You chose to turn down that great job opportunity because you thought something better would come along! And now you're going to sit there complaining? Don't you think that that's just a really bad case of self sabotage? Why should we then force our friends to listen to our bad luck and pass it off as 'gossip'? So... are we just all out there to self sabotage ourselves? If we're given a great opportunity, we get scared and start making excuses ( I should know) and then before you know it, you've talked yourself out of a situation just because you've completely scared yourself! Why is it that we want to ruin our lives? Drag out the painful parts? Do we really hate ourselves that much? My advice- no more saying no to great opportunities...if you initially think the idea is great, then say yes. If not? Say no... it's a simple solution that will save you a whole load of bad 'karma'.