We spend hours watching films about girls finding the perfect guy; 'the one'. Maybe, he knew it all along (she just need persuading) or they originally hated each other. But if this is the case, if girls are so lost in the idea of finding the one, how do we know 'the one' when he is standing right in front of us?
When I go looking for my perfect shoe, the job is easy. I often build up and outfit in my head then go out looking for this amazing creation to sit on my foot. And I'd even go as far as to say I have found the one pair of shoes for me. - Quite obviously my red stilettos so I won't babble- and shoes don't let us down ( I have mentioned this numerous times before).
So, why is it not as easy to find a person?
People have so many more advantages... the can speak and express their feelings, but maybe it is this baggage that's stopping us.
We have so many rules to stick to in life:
- Tall, dark and handsome
- Chicks before.... well ya know
- Never date your friend's ex
But what if the guy is short bright and blonde? What if the guy that screwed over your friend is your soul mate? And what if your friend's ex is the one for you? Why do we have an ideal... but so many rules that stop us from meeting this ideal?
If we never let go of the rules, will we ever be happy and meet the one? xoxo
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